A player has been asking personal questions.
Over four sessions this week the same player has asked which school Riley goes to, whether anyone checks Riley’s messages, and suggested moving the conversation somewhere else. No single message was alarming on its own — the pattern is.
- Start open. “Who have you been playing with lately?” Let them bring it up.
- Name the behaviour, not the person — it’s the questions that are off, not the player.
- Agree a rule together: school, address and schedule stay offline. No exceptions, no negotiating.